Last Wednesday was a rough day for Nathan. He experienced a shock to his system when, after a week of near-constant attention from Nana, Grandpa, and many others, he crashed back into the real world when I headed back to work and Cat spent part of the day unpacking. To him, the moments when he had to entertain himself with his toys was completely unacceptable. To add insult to injury, he was even forced to return to his crib to--heaven forbid--sleep through the night by himself. The horror.

By now, we have recovered from the long drive to Louisville and back--through West Virginia at the start of deer season, no less--and are back to our usual routines. The trip was a welcome break, with plenty of good meals, lots of free babysitting, and time well spent with friends and family. Best of all, we sustained no injuries from being pushed out of the way upon arrival to allow the grandparents to reach the guest of honor, Nathan, even though we had prepared ourselves for some shoving. Nathan was, however, met with plenty of entertainment and luxurious facilities. Nana and Grandpa had prepared their place with several nice toys for Nathan, including a massive exersaucer with more than enough activities to keep him busy, a wooden rocking horse that had been passed down through the generations, and a
Fisher-Price toy with yet more small plastic balls to roll under the sofa. Most of all, though, he seemed to enjoy the wide open floors and soft carpet in the living room and family room. He was able to roll and scoot his way from one end of the room to the other.
Wednesday was a day to recover from the drive while Cat and I took advantage of the opportunity to do some shopping on our own, so Nathan had some quality time with Nana and Grandpa. With the new rooms to explore and the sheer excitement of seeing his grandparents again, Nathan went through some dramatic cycles of playtime and naptime, but there was always a grandparent around happy to oblige with a bottle, a quiet chair, and a soft chest to sleep on. This was fortunate for him, because he would need all of his energy for the next day.
Thursday was a busy day; Cat and my mom managed to crank out several dishes for Thanksgiving dinner, in spite of a morning power outage that left much of the neighborhood in the dark for several hours. Even with no power, we still managed a good breakfast, featuring pancakes that my dad prepared on the camp stove on the back patio. As I understand it, the camp stove was a mainstay during the four-day-long power outage after the remnants of a hurricane passed through Louisville in September. Fortunately, this outage wasn't nearly as severe, and the power was back on within hours. Thus began the frenzy of cooking in preparation for a busy Thanksgiving dinner at Nellie and Michael's house.
Nathan really seemed to enjoy all the activity and attention at Nellie and Michael's house. Late afternoons are normally his nap time, but he was in no mood to sleep, content instead to take in all the new faces, new toys, and people his size. I can't remember him even yawning during the entire visit. He was held by quite a few different people and, at one point, even had to strip off his pants due to the intense interest in seeing his "thunder thighs." He seemed a bit confused by all the people pinching his legs out of sheer fascination with his "Bubba" stature. Over the course of the evening, the five of us enjoyed a great dinner--no turkey for Nathan, though we had contemplated exploiting the tryptophan-loaded meat for a peaceful night--and were able to catch up with lots of old friends. With the four kids running around nearby and all the attention from the grownups, Nathan was so exhausted by the end of the evening that he was asleep before we made it out of the neighborhood.

Sunday, of course, was the main event. We had arranged to have Nathan baptized at
St. Paul church in Louisville and had been looking forward to the day, though not without some trepidation. Nana had sewn a great little baptism outfit (sans Redskins logo, unfortunately) and had invited a number of friends and family, many of whom showed up to the baptism and the lunch afterwards. Cat and I, on the other hand, spent most of the time leading up to the church service worrying about how cranky Nathan would be and the extent to which his certain screams of tired anguish would echo through the sanctuary. Personally, I had spent several evenings plumbing the depths of my childhood memories of sitting in church, looking up at the beautiful stained glass windows, to see if I could estimate the frequency and amplitude of baby screams they could withstand before exploding in a lethal shower of brightly-colored shards of death. Fortunately, it was not to be. After enduring a Tolstoy-esque prayer prior to the baptism, Nathan behaved admirably, performing his new trick of attempting to escape to freedom by pushing off of one's chest only once while the reverend held him. He handled the water with aplomb and exhibited not an ounce of stage fright.
To preempt the building displeasure, Cat and I immediately adjourned to the church nursery to change Nathan. It was only later that we left at a most inopportune time, since the children's moment during the service apparently offered an entertaining bit of action. Nellie, Michael, Sammy, and Duke had all come to the service, and Sammy, the wild one that he is, took the invitation to come up to the front for the children's moment as an invitation to come RUNNING to the front, with an added lap down the side aisle and back for good measure. This pattern might have continued, had Eric, his grandfather, not strategically blocked his path on the return trip and lassoed him into control. It sounded as though the pole and belt from my animal control Halloween costume might have come in handy. And Cat and I missed it all!
We returned just as things were getting back to normal, and proceeded to try various tactics to keep Nathan entertained (read:quiet) during the remainer of the service. When his fascination with other people in church began to fade, I finally realized that the same methods used to keep him in line during a plane flight could work in church. With bottle and pacifier in hand, I soon had a dozing baby in my hands. As my luck would have it, he fell asleep right at the last sentence of the sermon. I told Tom, the reverend, this during lunch after the service with intention of giving him a compliment (i.e., your voice and sermon was soothing to Nathan), but realized after I said it that there were other ways of interpreting it (i.e., your sermon was boring to Nathan). Probably not what a reverend wants to hear about his sermons. After church, a large group of friends met up at a restaurant in downtown Louisville called
The Cafe for lunch. The food was excellent--I tried the Strata, a layered quiche-like dish, and Cat had a delicious-looking Hot Brown--and we further enjoyed having yet more people excited to hold Nathan. Having other people to hold the boy saves us from the task of enforcing the DMZ, the object-free zone around Nathan that we must create at any restaurant table. Any items that land in the DMZ inevitably fall into the swirling vortex that leads directly to his mouth. At the end of the meal, Nathan was so worn out that he was able to conk out on my lap on the restaurant's sofa, surrounded by the cacaphony of conversations nearby and the clatter of dishes as the restaurant closed up shop for the afternoon.
The rest of the trip was a great time to relax and recover from Thursday and Sunday. I had a chance to meet up with Nic, a good friend from high school, and talk to Prasad, another good friend, on the phone. Nana and Grandpa had some more alone time with their grandson, as Cat and I took off again for some shopping at
Architectural Salvage,
Louisville Stoneware, and other places, and had a pleasant dinner at a Japanese steakhouse. After a bit more peace and quiet, we packed up the minivan and headed home, avoiding the West Virginia Jeep's with dead deer strapped to the roof. All in all, it was a great week.